WAW1978-Part 4

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However this washes out I know I tried. At least when it came down to my sanity or my M, I picked my sanity first and tried to work on our issues. If he wants to take a break because he needs to, I am just going to go with the flow and see where it takes us. Maybe the grass won't be greener for him, maybe it will.

I got my space, now he will get his. For me it isn't a power struggle or a control issue. Obviously for him it is. He balked at my suggestion that he keep seeing the C for IC sessions. He doesn't seem to get it that the things about him that pushed me away will probably push someone else away too. But thats not my problem he will have to learn this on his own. At least I am continuing with IC because I do not want to repeat what went wrong in my M in any future R's...Got to get that backbone and stop letting people walk all over me.