My W is coming over tonight to discuss how we are dividing items in our house. She constantly asks me for money and just last night asked again and I said I would transfer money. I didn't because she is using that account to pay the cell bill I wouldn't pay.

If my W wanted to seperate because she was tired of being broke, I would give her every spare dime for her and the kids. BUT...since she was unfaithful and was disrespectful to me as her husband and and a person, I have been reluctant to give her more than the minimum.

I have given her money for my D's school supplies, continue to pay for her car, insurance etc, etc. I also give her cash every week for living expenses.

So now tonight I am going to have my say. I will tell her that although we had money issues, she chose to leave and go outside the M seeking OM. She totally disregarded our M and our children and took on this new piece of garbage!!!!

This is why I am not being so cooperative. I will tell her that if she wants to make an issue of the money being minimal, then we should tell her parents why I am being difficult.

She has been totally wrong in what she did and is doing. I have been so humiliated for these last few months and I will not allow her to have the final say on this matter!!!


Me: 41
W: 40
D5, S4
Bomb Dropped: 7/8/2007
Status: W has moved out with kids 8/25/2007