WoW all of this sounds alot like what I have been going through since last December. Hang in there I am definitely rooting for you!!! YOu can do it Limbo!
Me:33; Ring on 5/17/97 H:33; Ring off 5/31/07 Together:13years Married: 10 ("celebrated" 10th after he moved out Bomb Dropped: New Year's Eve '07 Moved out: 5/4/07 Filed: 3 weeks later S: 3 D&S(twins):1
You have been through a lot it is reasonable to have doubts. But you guys have come a long way. Their is something to that sabatoge thing, but I don't think it is all internal. As I have posted on another thread I look at how things look up and then bam something is said or done to set it back.
Sorry to those that don't buy into the religious views, but I believe more and more just from reading this board, that the arrows come harder and faster the closer we get to reconcilation. I see it with myself in the past and I see it with others that post.
We all have choices to make but it seems like the hill gets steeper right before the top. Hang in there, Retrou should be great, plus I am sure we would like to know the stories that they share! Best of luck to you this weekend.
Married:10 years D final 8/28/08 10 minutes is all it took Life goes on and DB was no small part in growing from the Divorce!
Thank you all for the support! Its amazing to have a cheering section like you guys!! Its means alot!
I am looking foward to this and am scare s**tless at the same time!! Cuz this is the make or break moment, I think its something that we both feel! Maybe I will just spend the rest of the week slightly drunk!!!!!
Me - 44 H - 44 M - 19yrs together - 23yrs D16 S8 EA/PA - Bomb Oct20/06 Jan 8/07 Feb 01/07 Jul 15/07 H still @ home Recovered!
Hi Limbo - thanks for dropping by my thread! I so totally appreicate the support! I have been SOOOOOO busy with school - cna't believe it how time is flying.
We only have a few more days left before the big day! You are going to be awesome. I don't think that your H is going to have any other choice BUT to open up. The weekend, I think, is designed for those couples that have 1 person ready to go and 1 not so much. You are going to do so well. I cannot wait to compare notes!
((((limbo))))
Me: 34 H: 39 M: 7 yrs H A 12/05-8/07
If what you say surprises me, I must have been assuming something else was true. - M. Wheatley
Just getting back to checking on you after a lengthy absence from the board. But I am glad to see that you guys are still planning on the Retro weekend. If nothing else it should improve communication between you guys. Also, from my point of view, it appears that your H does want things to work and is willing to try. Couple more days until Retro. Good luck.
Stew
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1162413&page=2#Post1162413 M-28 W-28 Together 10 years Married 2 years No children Things started taking a turn in 01/07
We are just counting the days down, as it gets closer the more nervous I get! Also alittle concerned, h has a pretty good cold, and I think I am getting one, hopefully doesn't get to bad!! taking what I can to try and prevent it!!
Me - 44 H - 44 M - 19yrs together - 23yrs D16 S8 EA/PA - Bomb Oct20/06 Jan 8/07 Feb 01/07 Jul 15/07 H still @ home Recovered!
If it is chest and nose congestion like everyone else around here has, I recommend a prescription nasal spray. Also mucinex the one that is for chest and nose to promote draining. You do not want a sinus infection. Best of luck I am sure the anxiety is there, but it will be good.
I can't wait to hear about some of the presentations, please share what you can when you are done.
Best of luck!
Married:10 years D final 8/28/08 10 minutes is all it took Life goes on and DB was no small part in growing from the Divorce!
I don't think I can get that here in the great white north! And its starting to feel a bit that way today, was a definate chill in the air this morning!!
I asked H how he was feeling about the upcoming weekend and he said he was feeling good....so good thing!
Me - 44 H - 44 M - 19yrs together - 23yrs D16 S8 EA/PA - Bomb Oct20/06 Jan 8/07 Feb 01/07 Jul 15/07 H still @ home Recovered!
