Well, this at least oughta help you detach. Seriously, given the way that you've described your H in the past, this sounds like an attempt by him to control you/the situation. H to self: "If I can't have my W, well, I'm going to date others and she'll come back because she'll see what she's missing." Or, he might feel like dating gives him control over his life.
Interesting about your speculation about OW. Maybe, but I don't think you've hinted at that before, what would make you think that now all of a sudden? Past behavior clicking into place or wounded pride about being able to pull off a 'boob shirt'? (How could he not want THIS?)
On the flip-side, maybe this is evidence that your H just doesn't get it. Maybe he'll run for a while then come back. Who knows. You sound pretty good, all things considered.
Plus, there's this: It's getting to be too cold for boob shirt wearing. You'll have to bundle up for the winter. That'll give you time to see where your R is going. One way or the other, by next summer, you'll be able to, um, whip out those puppies for either H or as a lure for a new man
BD
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Me: 36 W: 35 2 D: 9 and 5 T: 16 years M: 12 10/4/06: Bomb 10/5/06: Ended A 4/22/07: ILYBNILWY
