This is what I'm thinking...

Your H started persuing you. You ML a couple of times. You think OW didn't notice something was up? Maybe she realized her position isn't as safe as she thought? She's going to fight to keep her reality. The A doesn't just go away.

However, you still have the advantage. You have resources. You have DB, you have lots of support. You have the history with this man. I think someone else said, "You are the wonderful mother of his children."

I think he's going to go back and forth. He's going to hit confusion hard. Just hang in there and do what you do. It's not over yet.

In the meantime, as you always say, OUCH OUCH OUCH! This is a very hurtful circumstance. Take care of yourself. Pamper yourself a little. Play coy with the cell phone again. Get all dressed up and go out to dinner when he comes to get the kids, even if it's with your great aunt.


(((HUGS)))


Me29
H33
D9 months
S2
S9(previous R)
Sep 8-19-07
I file 11-5-07
H home (Retro) 2-15-08
"Today is the tomorrow of yesterday." -- S9