WAW1978-Part 4

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Could not put off the 'talk" last night. I had to be at our home to take care of D & dog since he was off on his work trips. He ended up coming back early. Confronts me about what was said in te email and why I didn't respond. So we went through A to Z. He wants a complete separation. Apparently he had some wake up call in LA that he now thinks he would like to be single and start dating. Does not want to work things out. Too far gone etc etc. I just said fine if thats what he wants. We have one more MC sesh where he just wants to tell the MC that were done with C.

I feel more like its "done for now"...I think he is just going through that spiteful part of being and LBS. So I am just going to backoff and let him do whatever it is he feels he needs to do. See what happens. We discussed D and full Sep. Neither of us feels that filing right now is necessary. He finally conceded we could have a full 50/50 split on the child and the dog...weird you would think he would just give me MY dog.

Anyway. Thats it for now. H wants to date other people. Can't help but wonder if there hasn't been someone else since one of our major issues was him not wanting physical contact and I one of the local hot boob shirt wearing Moms so I know now that it was NEVER me...hmmm makes you wonder huh?