Well, there was no argument, the hug happened, and the affection has definitely been ramped up since. That was all a shock, to be honest. I was expecting a fight. And yep, I did care about which way it would go - I was just more ready than ever for it going the 'wrong' way.
So... it was our wedding anniversary yesterday and we had the kids in bed on time, nice meal, chocolates, champagne, blah, blah... until about 10pm when she decides to head off to bed. 'Hmmmmm', thought I. I lock up and follow her up a minute or two later, and she's in bed with the lights off. So I edge my way around the bed, get in, and discover that she's facing away from me, about as far away as she could possibly get (it's a big bed), with jogging pants on and a big old top and, best of all... she's already asleep.
Either that or she was pretending to be asleep.
Tell me if I'm waaay off here, but if there's no chance of intimacy and closeness on our fricking anniversary night (no matter how tired you are), then what hope is there for the other 364 days of the year?
