I fed info through that I knew would help the OW's H in pursuing hiw W as he still held hope for his marriage. I was graphic about myself and my H ML - that really got OW's goat. It was true but even if it hadn't been OW wouldn't have know that - it would have just been my H's word against hers - enough to foster feelings of doubt... I also told OW's H that my H was recommiting to our M and that sent OW over the edge!!!!

It worked.

Saffie

Saffie
me 46
H 46
M in 1986
D20,D18,S16,D13
H's A 01/05 to 07/06
H recommitted to M 07/06
renewed vows 09/06
Going from strength to strength