muddled and angry: Puddle's sencond thread

[Not Much Left]

Hi Puddle!
Sounds like you are struggling a bit on where things might stand w/ him vis-a-vis no feedback. Been thinking a lot about that myself.

Questions
1. When do you have an R talk? What has your C said?
2. When you have it, what the hell do you say?
3. I suck at this, I am realizing I have no valuable input. I am asking these questions for you and me and others because the pat answers are never, let them come to you? B.S. it may never happen and what do you do then, stay in limbo forever? And when your having it validate blah, blah blah, when are they going to validate? I was in the shower just now and went through the whole talk w/ my W (alone) and realized that I really do have issues w/ my W that if she does not change, we will never be "happy" or "fulfilled" (more BS) but seriously, I dont want it, do you?

C