I don't think I should imagine him going out on dates when he isn't with me. That sort of thing would just make me want to avoid him altogether.

I noticed that you said in your thread that you are going to make yourself so busy this weekend that there won't even be time to get eat together--why?

Oh- my H is here. Bye.

Me-43
H-46
M 12 yrs 7/09
T 15
2 grown kids
bomb 7/05/07
H moved out 8/04/07
11/22/09 told him I quit;let's get ball rolling
Mid Dec- he isn't sure he wants D
End 2/2010-Starting to consider piecing