I am trying to "go dark" right now. i have been trying other things with minimal returns and it hit me that this would be the best course of action.
My W has always stated that she wants to "live" life. Now, I am going to sit back and enjoy the time I can have with my son and let her figure things out.
I have done a ton more things than she has ever done so living my life is consistingof my son and friends.
Tonight she went to go "console" a friend whose family moved 3,000 miles away. her friend was extremely close to her family and the move hit her hard. She wanted to know what i thought about her going to spend time with her. I acted "as if" I did not care. She wanted to go so I encouraged her too. As she left she gave me a kiss goodbye. She did happen to leave her rings behind but once she realized it called to apologize.
I am trying something new. I want this to work for my son and myself but we will see where this takes us...
Me=29 WAW=25 S=2 "I need a break" = 6/07 Filed = 12/07