I know... I really do. I seriously see my January - April when I read your posts.
Glad the book was legit, I used way too many "excuses" early on.
I think DO go with the good times, but don't pressure, or pursue at all (and especially anything guilt-laden)... and be unavailable at least sometimes.
If you need to, picture him out on dates with other women every night he's NOT with you. Does that make it a little different how you act around him?? (that image did for me.. may or may not work for you).
It's such a fine line, I know... enjoy the good times, but not be "too much."
Me 35, H 38; Together 13.5 yrs, M 7 Bomb 1 10/07/06 Sep'd 1/14/07 - 4/15 Piecing: 4/07 - 9/07 Bomb 3 10/11/07: Never loved you, let's separate 2/08 slowly improving 7/08 Piecing (7/25/08 rings back on!!) Current thread
