Say everything... that I am saying to you... and you are saying to me..... in your honesty... bless you.. don't say it to me. Don't take me to xxx restaurant... say all those things to your wife... and then ask her to go to xxx restaurant... ask her to walk with you.... minus her father... in the company of YOU who is figuring it out... and talk about it. And talk about her. And how hard and confusing it is... to figure it out. AND maybe... you can tackle the confusion together...
