thanks Nikki.
Regarding the book; he told me it was coming yesterday or today and to let him know when it came (it's for school), so that was legit. I never tell him about any other mail.

I think this the communication thing is especially confusing since we are sleeping together and spending a lot of time together on the weekends. Obviously, if he was just a guy I went to a movie with one time, then I wouldn't have mentioned the cooking class, but we're a bit past that.

Having said that--I understand what you are saying.
It is so F'ING HARD. And with the recent ILYs and tenderness--it makes it REALLY difficult. But, yes. He left. He's moved out. I believe that since he has said that he 'wants to date me' and we've been spending our weekends together, it is sort of assumed that I will be available for him. He wants to get reacquainted/get to know me again. He had done so good with the Harley rental and the Stevie Wonder tix. And suggesting that we go where we had our first date... ARRRRRRRRRRRGH!


Me-43
H-46
M 12 yrs 7/09
T 15
2 grown kids
bomb 7/05/07
H moved out 8/04/07
11/22/09 told him I quit;let's get ball rolling
Mid Dec- he isn't sure he wants D
End 2/2010-Starting to consider piecing