This reminds me of when I was wanting to please my H. I had decided that maybe something was wrong with me and I just wasn't born "normal" so I told him that I did not want him to be in fear of rejection whenever he wanted to ML. I told him that I would ML anytime he wanted to. I foolishly thought that would please him. It didn't! Instead, he sulled up and acted mad....of course he never talked about any issues we had, so I didn't "know"....I had to "guess". But, the best I ever got from him on the subject was that .....regarding this instance I'm talking about.....it just wasn't good enough! I was devastated and didn't know what to do. For real! I did not know what else to do. There are other things that I tried thinking it would please him or make him happy....finally, but it was never good enough. So, I gave up.
From the woman's point of view here, it sounds like you are complaining first of all that she is LD and you aren't getting enough sex. Then, secondly, she wakes up to the fact that you may leave the M due to her LD, so now she is despartely trying to do what you have told her all these years that SHE HASN'T DONE.....which is give you more sex....but now, thirdly you are saying...it isn't good enough....she doesn't really mean it. You don't feel like she REALLY LOVES YOU. Get over yourself! If she did not really love you she would have kicked you out a long time ago. If your really love her...you will accept what she is trying her best to do and work WITH her to save your marriage. I can't believe this!Talk about hypocritical!
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
