Originally Posted By: oldtimer
w.r.t. 401ks, I doubt that legally it is much up to you. Generally, those things are split down the middle.


That's true in my state. All marital assets are split 50/50, no negotiating.

Even if it were up to you, WHAT WERE YOU THINKING? I may be wrong, but I would not volunteer more $$ because I felt like I was stealing.

She walked away! This is one of many consequences of HER decision!!