Lissie has been clear that if her H is having an A, thats a line in the marriage. Similar to me - I did snoop - and yes it hurt to find out because it meant my marriage is over (if she had confessed and apologised thats one thing, but acting in denial and being dishonest while having the A is almost unforgiveable, and while I admire the DB principles, facts are that not too many couple make it back from that sitch.
The only danger here is if Lissie's H is not having an A and he finds out - well how would he?
Me - 39 W - 33 M - 5yrs Bomb - 8/5 2007 Moving out - 9/8 2007
