"My H has also said that he doesn't see what he did as an affair, as he no longer "felt" married or loved me. wth? "
Must be in the code book. I have heard that too. BLECKY
Morgan, you do what you want (hot bath or gym), but mk is right, be prepared for what decision you are going to make. Please know, I am not judging you. I don't regret ML to H the few times we have since the bomb, so I totally know where you are coming from.
Let me know how the night went. Well, not the gooey details. LOL