Looking really hard, putting the rose colored glasses on, maybe there is a teeny, tiny, silver lining. Now that you are where you are, and seeing pretty darned clearly, you have a lot better view of what you are up against. And it is something that you know can be beaten. As has been said, in the end, it is Jeff's decision, but at least you can finally take some action aimed a a specific objective. Fighting this problem is in some ways less vague that DBing on its own, it seems to me. And if anyone can do it, I've become convinced it is AmyC!
