So There Was Nothing #4

[LL44]

Hey girl. Just saying hi.

[Dr LOve]

What's up cali,

Just checking in

Husband

[runningoutoftime]

I think God has a better plan for you... and gosh, a guy with a lot more going for him (like no debt!). Your husband does not sound like a trophy to me. OW must be desperate. There are LOTS better fish in the sea!!!

[Kali]

Hi Cali,

Just wanting you to know I have been reading your thread and that I am here for you. I did buy Divorce for dummies I thought what could it hurt. A friend of mine put it in her Divorce that the OW could not see or be around her kids for 3 years and the judge honored it. I didn't think that they could do that but at least it was for a little while.
Hang in there and even thought it is hard to believe..My friends keep telling me that god has a better plan for you...I should hope so for all of us because it is the pits to go thru this.

You will make it....

Thanks so much Penny. It means alot. I know God has good things in store for me, I am just losing my patience.

[Kali]

Hi lwb and Husband. I just been out busy being a mom to 5 kids.

I think God has a better plan for you... and gosh, a guy with a lot more going for him (like no debt!). Your husband does not sound like a trophy to me. OW must be desperate. There are LOTS better fish in the sea!!!

LOL my best friend tells me the OW traded up. Her ex was very much not a catch from what I heard. Actually I have alot of people telling me that they always thought I could have done better. Never understood why we were together, just never wanted to say anything.

[Kali]

oh fyi my H has no debt, but he has no assets either. Since the bankruptcy is through we officially have no debt, but we also both have credit that is in the toilet. So I already have it in the plans to work on my credit. My H pretty much never did any of the finances so not sure he would even know how to improve his credit?

[Dr LOve]

Hey Cali,

Just got back on. I am tryingto stay off when W is around. Sounds like the hippie mama is doing beter.

Things are ok here.

husband

[Kali]

Hehe, one good thing about not having H live here, I get more computer time. No one to answer to.

Yep hippie momma is good today. I think I have finally detached. H came by last night and tonight and really it was no different then a neighbor coming by. I think I finally let him go. Now if only my sub-conscience will catch up and I stop having crazy dreams about him and OW.

[LL44]

I know about the crazy dreams. I had one where OW rear ended me and jumped into the back of my car.

I wish I knew how to detach.

[Yoyowife]

Cali,
There are perks to not having H at the house when this is going on. You can do whatever you want and you don't have to walk on eggshells. I do however have to share computer with DD!