I'm with you Talley. But, I also think you have to look at what was missing from your M. The OP doesn't just walk in and sweep our S's off their feet. Usually the S has felt some intense lonliness, let down etc for a long time. They are ripe for some attention and for someone to "really know" them. Now, you still can save your M but to do so you must look at what was missing, set up an action plan and stick to making it happen. And if it doesn't save your M it will make you a better, more desirable man and that's a win win situation. Take care.
