My H actually told a mutual friend that his affair was the "only way that things could have gone." She told him that she didn't want to hear that--there were many other ways to go.
My H tod me the same thing on the phone! He said it did not matter if he worked in a bar or at a train station. It would have happened. Now, I am not sure if he meant romantically this OW was his destiny or if he just needed to have an affair with the first person who would have him in any sitch. I kind of think it is the latter. I think that this OP is really just a generic OP.
Me:38 H:39 MLC M:10 R:23 years D6 S3 Bomb: Easter, 2007 "Every day may not be good, but there's something good in every day."