There and Back, #5

[mkultra]

"This depends on your capacity for forgiveness, healing and learning from the past. It depends on his being able to admit his mistakes, his helping you heal and his learning from the past. And both of you making a committment to hard work in the future."
Stoic-

I think this is one of the most crucial components of reconciling after an infidelty. The WS must actually be remorseful and that is out of our control right now.