I think about colin firth's role a lot. well, I like colin firth, so hard not to think about whatever role he is in, lol. but his story was about his unfaithful g-f (wife?) and he went off to france I think to write. I want to enjoy the fact that he found love again, but I don't...I think he rushed into something, was so eager to love someone again and be loved by someone again that he convinces himself he is, even if he hardly knows the girl. Its a mistake I hope and plan to avoid. but its something that I can understand...wanting love again so much.
You know I am starting to see that this is how WS seem to justify their affairs in the first place. We root for Colin's character to find love with someone else besides his wife because we see that his wife has betrayed him. In many spouses' minds they feel they have been given a life that they do not want, they feel resent and betrayed and they want to find some other love or excitement or to get back some feeling like Colin Firth's character. Yeah, my H really feels like I betrayed him and that I broke his heart and spirit and that gives him free license to do as he wishes. Eve if it was in his mind or from my words or actions. Of course I did not bop his brother, but still. Now it expands because I have been cheated on and I want to go write somewhere and meet a hot guy who may or may not speak da English. But I won't. I can't.
Me:38 H:39 MLC M:10 R:23 years D6 S3 Bomb: Easter, 2007 "Every day may not be good, but there's something good in every day."
