I don't have the answer to the "how will he know" questions because it doesn't seem to make sense to me. But Michele says it works that way and she's not the only one; if you do a little research online (and that's about all I do anymore in order to keep from going nuts) you'll find lots of advice in that same vein. Things from books on how to pick up people in bars. All have the same general idea: the other person somehow, someway does in fact notice what you're doing and it does work in your favor. It is something that has been documented to happen so take it on faith that it will.

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