Chat with OPs spouse?

[lester]

Yeah for sure that's why I came here. It's always such a good sounding board especially when others have done the exact same thing. Okay, so I'll have to plan this. I know they tend to hang out from 1-2pm so maybe if I head to his house (late lunch from work) around 1pm I have some garantee he's not there. But since I've never spoken with her I don't know if she has some sort of schedule like always takes kids to park at 1pm. Hmm.. maybe I could vary lunch schedule (they literally live 5mins away from where I work is that not irony). Once I know what her approximate schedule is then I can approach.

I don't want to call since that will be on the cell bill. I want to keep it hushed if possible but prepared for it not to be.