But Cobra... IF your honest answer is... "I don't know..." just tell me... (Who You ARE in the interim)... 'cuz that clears up a whole lot of things for me... and I can just BE ME... and not fret or .... hmmmm..... get confused (as your wife MAY BE in your Not Knowingness).... while you work it out.

But just don't pretend that you DO KNOW, when you Don't Know.... 'cuz that leaves me guessing... and not trusting... and being suspicious...

Get my meaning?

Corri