Hey LG,sorry to hear your plans to be with your D did not work out.
-------------- but maybe I should've and should follow my heart and keep her with me? ---------------- Is it too late to tell your wife you were not really comfortable with the decision and that you do want your D with you?
-------------- Fist option, I was going to drive out there and spend a week in AR taking care of D... So the second plan...
W called to say that her parents would go to AR and take care of D that week. Isn't that great? --------------- I wonder if this is miscommunication problem, did she know about the 2 plans you formulate and did she realize you and your D were making plans for when she got home? Did your W just *told* you what her decision was?
With holidays and all that stuff coming up, perhaps now is a time to divide time fairly between you two so you don't feel cheated like now. I wonder if, in some way, your wife thought she was doing good by just taking care of your D without having to have you or her fly around and save $ and didnt realize how much it hurt you to not have your D around.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
