((NDDT))...I think holding off on the R talk is a wise idea. My DB coach says to aim small and stay casual when me and the H talk..she thinks R talks scare him away...you may try just some casual friendly conversation...make her laugh, and show her the true you....you can do this....stay strong and positive \:\) Christa

H-32
Me-29
T-10years
M-4yr (10/04)
Me- WAW 1/07
I filed for D 2/07
D put on hold 5/07
H re-files for D 9/08
WOW! trying MC 10/08

"Work like you don't need the money, dance like nobody is watching, love like you've never been hurt!"