Chat with OPs spouse?

[lester]

Everywhere, even Michelle's books say it's like an addiction so an Intervention makes sense... look we love you but keep acting like this and there's consequences. I've asked her to leave twice and that shook her up. I made it clear I wasn't forcing her out but there's the door. So, I know consequences do work but maybe it needs to be up a notch. That's just what I'm thinking.