Update: I want to Salavage my Marriage

[PhD_ChrisD]

Hey Heim,

I hope it is definately based on the latter (her heart). However, economics would probably be a pragmatic factor in her decision. That is only logicial. I am not sure how the thread was vectored to economic considerations anyway.

If she wants to work, I supported her on that. When she does not want to work, I am fine with that as well. Either way has always been OK with me and us, so she does what she wants. She was a happy stay at home mom for a long time. My earnings are such that we do fine either way. I think we both prefered her to stay at home. However, she is in stage where she wants to go to school, so I am fine with that as well.

I am taking the kids back east next week. This will give W a few weeks to decompress. I doubt it is any panacea, but at this point anything and all things DB cannot hurt.

Thanks for checking in with me Heim!

Best,
--Chris