it is going to be hard to look myself in the mirror without her knowing the truth. I mean that is so unfair; I’ve been able to DB and heal somewhat and she’s been getting the shaft.
You can't worry about OM's W. She may know and not be telling you. Or if you do tell her there is no guarantee that she is going to be grateful - she might try shafting you somehow in an attempt to save her own M. All you can do is looke after yourself. Only expose the A if it is in your best interests I know from first hand experionce that the OP's S will look after themselves first and foremost. You do the same.
Saffie
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength
