Just wanting you to know I have been reading your thread and that I am here for you. I did buy Divorce for dummies I thought what could it hurt. A friend of mine put it in her Divorce that the OW could not see or be around her kids for 3 years and the judge honored it. I didn't think that they could do that but at least it was for a little while. Hang in there and even thought it is hard to believe..My friends keep telling me that god has a better plan for you...I should hope so for all of us because it is the pits to go thru this.