I really don't have time to do the reply justice but just look at this: there was a famous study where an attractive woman propositioned random strangers for sex, and a sizable percentage of guys (I think it was 75%) said yes. These were young men, if I recall (undergraduates), but you see the trend. None of the women propositioned by an attractive guy said yes.

Yes but was the sex they had with the researchers better than no sex?