Our sitches are somewhat similar but it seems like I’m in the reverse position as far as knowledge from you and Yoyo. I see the same advantages and disadvantages that you state. Was your wife angry at all? Has a D been filed for in your sitch? (You said in the event D becomes final). One huge disadvantage would be wife’s reaction… reaction to cell phone info was pretty nuts but haven’t done it since .
Did your wife’s BF’s wife tell him that you two had been in contact?
H 30 (me) W 28 Married 9 yrs 2 children EA found out on 7/5/07 ILYBNILWY 8/25/07 The unexamined life is not worth living -Socrates