In my sitch the OM’s W has suspicions and I am the one with the info… at least from what I know. She may know some other way (he certainly doesn’t have the balls to tell her). I’ve thought about a PI but honestly like you said it would be TMI. I just don’t think I want to go there even if there is more going on than I even imagine I’d rather not know. I just want an end to it and this chat seems to come highly recommended elsewhere.
On a side note, as far as the subpoena thing I’ve read to mark all your journals, etc. as being directed to your attorney. It automatically becomes privileged at that point and can’t be subpoened. A person can be, however, and that sucks.
When you say that they are divorced; are you as well or just separated?
H 30 (me) W 28 Married 9 yrs 2 children EA found out on 7/5/07 ILYBNILWY 8/25/07 The unexamined life is not worth living -Socrates
