Chat with OPs spouse?

[saffie]

I contacted OW's H. I was the last out of the two couples to know. My H actually gave me his phone no. and email address. He thought that OW's H and I might give each other comfort!!

I was able to use it as a means to get information to OW through her husband - information that I knew OW's H thought would strengthen his cause and I knew would help me, as it would upset the OW. I never relied on the info that OW's H gave me as he had his own agenda and I was in no doubt that he would use me to further his own ends if he needed to. Luckily my H felt that he and OW deserved all the flack they got for all the hurt they had caused. OW didn't agree with that, which helped make the rift between my H and OW bigger. OW ended up running away from the whoe sitch as my H rejected her and she was frightened of me. She gave up her job in my H's co. and went back to her H.

I still know how to contact her if I want to and if she did anything that affected me I wouldn't think twice about contacting her and telling her what a scum bag she is.

Saffie