I don't know, I didn't have sex ON my wedding night (nor on my honeymoon, and less than 2x a month the first year we were married).

seems to me maybe it is the other way around, when I was single the any sex is better than no sex might have been true at times, but certainly not all the time. I think it was more of a wanting what I couldn't have thing. Several GF's threw themselves at me after I broke it off with them (including MrsGGB when I was getting cold feet about getting M'd), and well that was just a huge turn-off. Yuck! Made me want to run for the hills. Mr Happy is an impatient little pecker, and so the sexual assault sometimes worked, but left me feeling pretty crummy afterwards. Fast-forward to an SSM, and I definitely got to more of an "any sex is better than no sex" or "take what I can get and be happy with it" place. Now looking back with the wisdom I've gained from being here, I see how that attitude only made things worse. So my point is that feeling didn't change when I got married in the direction you posited.