The loopy ride has ended

[peaceful_spirit]

You did it. It must be a relief. I know it's tremendous loss, but it's got to be a huge weight off your shoulders.

In your sitch, there were no other options for you. I am headed in the same direction.

I hadn't realized it was 12 months since you saw him. I guess it must have been when he told you his OW was moving out of town, and you found out otherwise -- if I recall correctly. I just didn't know you didn't seen him since then.

My H is full of the same lies. He lies about big things. And I don't know what's the truth and what's not anymore. And nobody can live with that.

You did good.