Growing up is hard to do

[peaceful_spirit]

Angelica, RJ, Lissie and Mrs,
Thanks for your kind words. I'm still doing okay today. I have a lot more peace without him around.

What I am struggling with right now is telling him no when he comes back from his trip making some sort of excuses and empty promises. I haven't yet said no when he's done that. I've always tried to see something new in his promises. And in the end, nothing ever ended up changing.

So, for now my plan is to have him move out. Then give it some time before I file. I feel like I can only handle one thing at a time right now. And I don't know what my job situation will be come January. I may not have one. So, I'd rather not make any legal decisions until then.

My H seems to have no soul.

He comes back from Vegas on Thursday. I'm not looking forward to it.