Okay, so H sends me an email at work of all places, to tell me that he has been thinking about all of this and isn't sure that he wants to continue with this. He decided on his vacation that maybe our M isn't whats best for him and what he wants. That I can't give him what he wants out of an M.

It was long and drawn out, and work in financial services where the read all of our emails (Thank you Martha Stewart) I am some what embarassed that the tech group here now know all of the sordid details of my M. He said he couldn't call, which was a good move as I have a recorded line that is reviewed often for the same reasons as above.

I guess this is it. I am officially going to stop going to MC until we both can agree that is what we want. While beat a dead horse...it isn't going to get back up and gallop away into the sunset. I deserve better treatment than what he has offered and he is lucky that I was still willing to work on this. But if he is not going to work on the M then neither am I. This was what got us here in the first place, his refusal to go to MC after repeatedly telling him that something needed to be done.


Me: 30
EX-H: 37
DD: 5
Separated 6/07. MC for months, EX-H quit MC.
Divorce Final 8/14/08.
Trying to move on with new life.