Speaking for myself as a red blooded male and not typical for all males but what I like about porn is the stereotypical "dirty little whore". The girl that is comfortable enough to kick it out wide and have fun. I find that exciting. I like that in the bedroom. There is a time to make love and there are definitely times to get dirty. Throw out the hang ups about porn and focus honestly on what the two of you do behind closed doors for clues. You do not have to explain here but I'm sure you know what your basic script is.
You are not crazy and you are also free to stay within the limits you feel comfortable with. A solution will present itself with honest and open non judgmental talk.
