Lovely Olive,

I hope all is going well...

It's been 10 weeks since my H said his "final" goodbye to OW and nine weeks that he has been home. Each week goes by seems to have less and less sadness from me. I was in a funk this AM but probably more due to the gray, rainy day. We are doing great as a family and the kids are taking us for granted again.

H and I are definately diff with each other - but in a good way. It's his 45th bday today and I am surprising him with custom tshirts for the family with his boat name on it - we bought a cabin cruiser for family vacations and he wants to name it - I have been telling him I will think about the name he wants when really I am going to give him the shirts with the boat pic and name on it. We will all have the same 'crew' shirt. I told him this boat is good for the next 30 bday gifts and then some!!

We celebrate our 17th wedding anniv this Sat. and I am not sure what to get him. Cannot believe we actually made it - if you would have told me last year at this time I would have seriously doubted it!

I hope you are doing well too!!

HB \:\) ;\)


Me41 H44 * M16 yrs * D13 S10
8/06 H wants a D * 1/07 OW Truth
2/07 Searated * 7/07 H moved home
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