I think if you do this hope for the best and expect the worse. Definately, be prepared for the outrage you will endure from your spouse. In my case, OW was not married, so there was only the three of us involved. I contacted her one time after asking my H if he thought it would help if I talked to her. He wanted me to talk to her. I was trying to make reconciliation the easiest possible for him. In hindsight, I regret it. She was nothing but b$tchy and opinionated to me. She could care less about me and my marriage and our conversation proved that. She was only worried about herself and she thought that my H would make her happy. She gave me her opinion on what went wrong with my marriage...not exactly what I wanted to hear. H never came home, and I wish I never talked to her.
M:28, D finalized: 8/28/07 Current Thread
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