Not sure what to do. I walked in on my fiance this morning on a website and it wasn't the first time. He knows that it hurts my feelings because it triggers all sorts of insecurities. I'm really trying to work on handling this in a mature way and not overreacting because most men do these sorts of things, but I just can't shake it. When he learned how this affected me earlier in our relationship, he said that he will try to limit the amount of time he does it (once a month or so - of course how would I know that?) In any case, it sounds ok in theory, but then I walk in on him and I feel completely overwhelmed, hurt, angry and scared. I know it's not the same or even close to cheating but when I witnessed him involved in something sexual that has nothing to do with me it felt like I was an intruder...like I'm the other woman or something. I don't know. Any thoughts? Advice? Your stories?
