Lissie, I do understand. You are caught in a catch 22, damned if you do, damned if you don't situation. I guess it really all just comes down to how you handle finding out who the number belongs to. Have someone you know call the number for you or you can go online and pay for a reverse look up on a number and it will give you the name and address of who the number belongs to. The key, for now, is to keep it a covert operation, just in case it is not anything. No reason to do something to loose more of your H's trust.
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