"Well, if the 'worse' part comes within [X] time of you getting married... never mind all those vows.. the first year or so of your marriage is just a trial period anyways. obviously, this isnt working out for you, so just bail out now. It's ok, you dont really have to stick to all that 'better or worse' stuff, until you get at least a few years of 'good' marriage for yourself."
That just makes me sick.
Hmmmm..... that's a loaded comment. Why does that make you sick? Why do you think Jimmy or anyone else should hold so fast to what looks so clearly to be a serious mistake? Why the sense of obligation to some idea? I'm not talking about respect for the rule of law, or how morals or values are the bedrock of society. Keep to the point at hand...why should Jimmy stay in this marriage? What nobility is there is struggling through a hard if not impossible relationship? What makes you think you or anyone else, including Jimmy has the ability to overcome such an adverse situation?
