Sometimes (like today) I feel cold at what the OP has done. To my mind, he picked on a person when they were vunerable and took advantage of that. Any decent human being would say 'I am here for you as a friend, but your marriage is more important and this should be your prime concernt' not 'leave him and have a better life with me (once I have abandoned my family'.
Sorry, in a vent mood today. Nothing really triggered it, but sometimes all the suppressed feelings just bubble to the surface and you want to smack someone very hard!
It's also the W's birthday on Sunday and I have bought a card, telling her how much I love her (maybe not good DB, but its what I want to do). Also bought her sexy underwear and sleepwear, so it'll either backfire spectaculary or she will be appreciative.
She had a little grump at me last night and I apologised and she was down this morning (more likely about work). She is doing a long day today and won't be home till after 10.00, so I will deal exclusively with the children.
Sometime the 'as if's' threaten to turn into aaaaghs.
