Oh yeah, I forgot about the cats. Keep in mind that I am a bit biased b/c I am a cat/dog/furry animal lover. Have you taken the 1 to the vet to see what is causing & what can be done about the peeing in the house? Why are you giving up the other one?
It sounds like your W is emotionally connected to the cats from what you said about her not being able to be the one to do it -seems to be a trend with her huh?
If it would help your sitch at all and put you in better light with the W - I would try and see if you can make the cat thing work.
