PS: at a non-professional guess, I would suggest to keep doing the loving things you are doing. just try not to smother her with them, or keep her as a child. Build her up, rather than try to keep her as a dependant.
My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D. Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M. 3 wonderful sons caught in the middle
